Isn’t this beginning to sound exactly like a weight loss advertisement?
Trust me, this is not an advertisement. It is just an interesting story.
Years ago I was dating a young lady who was concerned about losing weight. She had joined Weight Watchers, and she was trying hard to follow the plan as carefully as possible. Incidentally, one of her recommended meals was liver and onions … definitely not on my “favorites” list. But she had found a restaurant that served what she felt was a fairly tasty liver and onions dinner, and she persuaded me to try it. I guess it was “alright.” I learned something … on their best day, liver and onions are alright. Let’s not talk about their worst day!
Connie explained the Weight Watcher program to me in some detail and even loaned me her Weight Watcher book. At the time, I was approaching 200 pounds … maybe not all that bad for a healthy young man 6’1” tall. Still, I considered giving her diet a try myself, until I discovered the complexity of it. When it came to eating, Connie was constantly reading, measuring, calculating, converting, contemplating, considering, discussing, planning, shopping, and preparing. And then, after all that effort, she would occasionally go out and buy a big cherry pie and sit down and eat the whole thing in one celebratory and victorious meal, followed by a brief but troubling struggle with depression.
Connie wasn’t fat. She thought she was. I didn’t think she was, and I tried to tell her so. But I didn’t help matters once when we were at the beach, and she asked me to put sun tan lotion on her back. I replied, “Well I would if I had a paint roller.” I couldn’t resist. Ya’ know, we never did get married.
One day I happened to weigh myself. God Grief! I was 205 pounds! Now I was fat! At that moment I decided to go on a Weight Watcher diet myself and get down to 175. I read the Weight Watcher book once again. I decided it the Weight Watcher plan was way too complicated. So I made up my own version of a genuine, Weight-Watcher-approved menu:
Breakfast
One soft boiled egg
10 ounces of skim milk
Two slices of dry toast (no butter, jam or margarine)
4 ounces of fruit juice
Lunch
4 ounces of tuna
2 slices of bread
4 ounces of fruit juice or 1 piece of fruit (apple, orange or peach)
1 diet soda
Dinner
4 ounces of vegetables
8 ounces of beef, chicken or fish
4 ounces of fruit juice
I could only have beef three times a week.
So called “free” foods included diet soda, French cut green beans, cucumbers, and lettuce. I could have as much of these as I wanted.
I ate this way for five weeks. On any day that I wanted to go out for a beer or two, I would skip all three meals on that day to compensate.
Week #5 I weighed myself. 175 pounds! Terrific! So I decided to give it one more week, just to give myself a little extra “wiggle room.” At the end of that week I weighed myself again. 168 pounds! Suddenly I was afraid. How could I lose seven pounds in seven days?
That night I decided to stop the dieting, and go out to dinner at an Italian restaurant. I went to my favorite spot in down town Los Angeles, and had a dinner salad, meatballs and spaghetti, a Coke, and cherry pie and ice cream. Everything tasted different. The spaghetti sauce tasted too sweet. The Coke tasted like syrup. The cherry pie was way too sweet and rich. And the ice cream was just more than just “over the top.” I could only eat about half of my meal.
Nonetheless, I felt as “victorious” as Connie, but for a different reason.
The following Monday when I arrived at work, I told my secretary, “Well, I’m off of my Weight Watcher diet.” She asked, “You were on a diet?” I said yes. “To lose weight?” she anxiously continued. “Yes!” I replied. And I walked away.
The next few minutes I noticed there were a number of phone calls and hushed conversations taking place. When I stepped out of my office, co-workers looked at me differently. There seemed to be a slightly different “energy” about the office. I couldn’t quite put my finger on it. Eventually I asked my secretary, “What is going on here? Why are people looking at me?” She responded, “The past few weeks you seemed to be losing a lot of weight, and we were concerned that you might have a serious illness. Everyone is so relieved to hear that you were just on a diet!”
Of course several of the ladies had to know what kind of a diet it was that was so unbelievably effective. I explained that it is amazing how little food we can get by on, if we eat the right food. I also explained that I had not changed my routine, had not tried to get more exercise, and had not cheated on my diet, with the exception of the few days that I want to go out with the guys and have a drink – so on that day I had not eaten anything at all. I also explained that I had been drinking more water than usual and was not taking any nutritional supplements at all.
I do not recommend this diet to anyone. You can do far better, and the result will be far healthier. I just didn’t know any better, and I wanted a super simple solution.
My solution to losing weight begins with education and attitude. I believe there are some basics a person should know, even before getting started. Otherwise success may be elusive or short lived. Or you might simply continue a dangerous trend towards malnutrition. In other words, to lose weight, one needs to learn how to be successful at losing weight, even before learning how to lose weight. The approach to losing weight is going to be different for each person. For example, it is essential to realize that small changes in eating habits, over time, will lead to drastic improvements in health and even a better quality of life. But what changes? Like I said, that depends on you. Each person is different. Losing weight successfully means you have lost excess body fat, strengthened your immune system, and have migrated from “survival mode” to “thriving mode.” It requires that you become focused on “achieving optimum health” rather than “losing weight.” And finally, it means relying on “nutrition” and “psychology” rather than “diet.”
Recently I bought a new pair of Levis 501′s. The size: 32/34. I have not worn that size for several decades! A year ago I could never have imagined eating the way I do today.
Let me repeat: you simply will not believe how little you need to eat, in order to achieve and maintain optimal health — to “thrive” instead of “survive” — to feel young again, to feel flexible, alert, and bursting with energy — simply by eating properly. Food is the most powerful medicine in the world!